OTMT, I'm sorry to hear that. I am trying to be friends for the kids' sake, but I can't right now. My hope is that we will be able to reconcile, and be a couple again, but if we can't I hope to be able to be friends. I believe that the best thing for the kids would for us to be together. The second best thing would be for us to be friends, I think. I don't really know, I am so confused. Part of me wonders what lesson that teaches the children. That it is okay to divorce as long as it is friendly? I don't want them to think that. This is so difficult for me...


H:38 W:37
Married:15 years
S:7
D:5
S:4
Bomb dropped Feb 2010
Affair Discovered Mar 10
Divorced Sep 11