That was incredibly harsh for you to condemn the other posters. DavidA has made a decision and it's been an incredible trial for him. Allow him to be happy for a change. It's not being selfish. It's letting his W find out who she is on her own. Likewise he has a right to do the same.
To say that he should continue to stick it out is ridiculous. Especially since she's M to someone else AND having an A.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.