thank you thank you thank you. For everyones nice words

Labug, just reading my words over again made me laugh too and feel much better. Thanks for posting it over here.

I have refrained from calling my H a wimp on this board cause I think its mean but in all seriousness I think his niceness and holding everything in was/is a huge part of the problem. Is anyone familiar with the book, No more Mr. Nice Guy? I cant get it for my H I know but should I read it??

I likes idea about giving my H till may before I make any decisions and just continue to work on myself until then. The problem being I dont think I can do it. I dont think I can keep my mind clear without more separation from him. This was much easier when he was in Atlanta and I didnt have to deal with him all the time.

I havent got time for the pain....


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13