OTMT, thanks for the encouragement, I really appreciate it. I am not done dealing with the affair and the divorce, you are right. I am going to start talking to my counselor again, made an appt already. I am not interested in building a relationship with anyone else. Yes, she will be leaving for a while. We will be communicating while she is gone because of the children. I plan on only relaying news of the kids while she is gone. If she brings up anything else, I will reply to it, but I will not initiate any other topic but the kids. Thanks again.
H:38 W:37 Married:15 years S:7 D:5 S:4 Bomb dropped Feb 2010 Affair Discovered Mar 10 Divorced Sep 11