Originally Posted By: ptcrussell
I am not calling or emailing him other than dealing with children.


Absolutely! Give him space and give yourself some space to detach!

Originally Posted By: ptcrussell
He thinks he can come over and fix stuff and that we can go on dates and have family dinners (told him NO based on counselor and Dobson so I already set that boundary).


Great job setting that boundary! You want him to see that things will be different if he chooses to leave and that he can't have his cake and eat it too!


Me31 H33
M11
T15
S10, D4
H deploys 01/11
H R&R two weeks 10/11
ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11
homecoming 1/12
pos D 1/13

Let the "real" battle begin!!