I can't tell where you're coming from. I will take you at your word that it is not from anger.
I completely get the anxiety around the possiblity of your H getting mad at you. I feel the same way many times about my W. Her anger & her tone in how she responds to me can be so harsh sometimes. That fear is mine though.
What's causing your fear of your H getting mad at you?
What's the worst that can happen if he gets mad? I spent years trying to avoid making my W mad at me and look where it got me. 18 months of limbo and frustration and not knowing what tomorrow will bring for our M.
If you're confident in your choices, let him get mad. That's his issue. I know from experience its easier said that done so good luck.
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
