The man has not a clue! He has no inkling as to why I filed for the d, why I wanted him out!!! He continues to be the same person! And I think he absolutely expects me to go back to him as he is.
If I continue to act as if...that is what I'll get --- the same damn thing I had pre-separation! Is that what I want? Hell, no but at the rate I'm going in this situation, my h is more than happy to supply the same old same old.
That is my question...will my behavior of detaching get him to where I want him? He'll pursue all right but that is the extent of it.
Is this all I should expect...him to come home as is and then expect changes after the fact?
