"was no mention of what I see as the biggest problem from her POV in our R for at least the last 9 or so years which is my stress and anger"
She did mention it. You just don't know how to read it. You would get mad and she felt this... "Unloved , unappreciated, hurt, uncared for, disrespected, unwanted "
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.