OK, so good news I guess. I texted w last night and asked her if she wanted to hit a pizza place with my d tonight at 5:15--prior to the open-house at my daughter's daycare. She said yes, so that's a positive sign right?

Of course, I'm keeping a level head about it--but still I think that's nice that she's open to that. No chasing, or anything. DB will be in full effect.

Hope everyone had a good Valentine's day despite their current situation.

Someone on the site made a very strong point--sorry I forget who it was--but I think he said as long as you append your happiness to the actions of others, you'll never be happy. Like Earl Nightengale said, "Happiness is an inside Job."


"Things are never bad; it's the way you think about them."
-Epictetus

M37, W33, D3, T10.5, M8, Bomb-day 9-16-11