Ah, one other important thing -- many of the people on this board have a spouse who has decided they are DONE at the time of the bomb drop. Your W seems to be a bit more of a fence-sitter. That speaks to believe nothing they say and only 50% of what they do.
You can gauge if your actions are working or not, your situation may not be typical. I recommend working with a telephone coach on this site because you can get much more personal guidance than we can give you.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
