Discuss was the wrong word... I told her that I hadn't decided if I wanted to do IC (I told her I wanted to do joint MC) but I would let her know if I started IC.
She doesn't get a say in what I do to better myself... just like she doesn't get a say in what GAL activities I do; I just do them and let her know what or at least where/when they are to make sure she or someone else is around to take care of the boys.
By the way Mach (and all the other vets on the boards that are trying to help us newbies through this), there is NOTHING that you can say that would offend me. I'm only 3 weeks post-bomb so any advice is greatly appreciated. Many of you have months and years more experience at this than I do.
That was a better wording, and I'm glad you are thinking in those terms.
I do think you should see one.
You are going to need a "safe room" for yourself until you can make some rational decisions regarding your future.
You do know that you have a say in this.....right ?
And as far as the other....
I always have a little deal with my friends...
I won't intentional say anything to hurt you, although I cannot control that little "sting" you might get if I say something too brutally honest to you.
If you ever feel that sting, you might want to take a look at why it stung...
I'm gonna send Cadet your way, with some things to read in your spare time....
