Discuss was the wrong word... I told her that I hadn't decided if I wanted to do IC (I told her I wanted to do joint MC) but I would let her know if I started IC.
She doesn't get a say in what I do to better myself... just like she doesn't get a say in what GAL activities I do; I just do them and let her know what or at least where/when they are to make sure she or someone else is around to take care of the boys.
By the way Mach (and all the other vets on the boards that are trying to help us newbies through this), there is NOTHING that you can say that would offend me. I'm only 3 weeks post-bomb so any advice is greatly appreciated. Many of you have months and years more experience at this than I do.
M36 W35 S8 S5 M11 T17 ILYB Bomb: 01/25/12 Still living in the same house, sharing the same bed, trying to make it better
What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls a butterfly."
