Originally Posted By: MrBond
Going back to your earlier post shows that even after all of your "reading" you still don't understand your W.

"she got hit on last night by a very drunk bloke and had to be rescued by one of her friends, but she said she thought it was best she told me.

Anyway I got visably upset/angry about this"

She was respectful enough of you to tell you this. To open herself up to you and you got mad. You were tested and failed.


You could be absolutely right about this, the other reason that I came up with was she said it to test wether I'm still interested in her.

Originally Posted By: MrBond

Sounds pretty selfish to me.


I see it now with your and 25MLCs help. Thankyou.

Originally Posted By: MrBond

You seem to talk about yourself alot. About YOUR feelings and how much work YOU've done. But you still haven't scratched the surface of what got you here...what YOUR WIFE feels. Learn and be compassionate and understanding about how she feels and you'll actually start learning.


Will post in a seperate post what I know her feelings are.

Thanks for your help, you are blunt and I appreciate it.