DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 4)

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I'll jump in with GM as well. Not sure if this is the same for you all but while I still love my W very much, I cannot see her as a friend, lover or support in anyway. That's just not where she is right now. To look at her in these ways would only be to place expectations on her that she cannot live up to and will ultimately disappoint me.

The question I have to keep asking myself is "what do I want to be to her?" The "lover" thing is definitely out of the picture but I can still act as a friend & support when opportunity arises.