Quote: I found the best luck I had was when I let go and lived my life. I left it to my XW to come back to me and she did twice.
Just goes to show you that no matter what you do, the decision will be your H's to stay in the M or not. All you can do is make the changes, be happy and confident, no pressure, and be as agreeable with his viewpoints as you can. Keeping the focus on you while he figures himself out is probably the best approach. He has to know you've let go, before you can expect anything concrete to happen in terms of his commitment level.
