I have been giving a lot of thought to how I have been seeing, reacting and acting in this sitch for the past year. I recognize (and it took a long time to do this) that I have given my total focus to my W and her sitch, not really focusing at all on the fact that I am on a huge journey in this too.

Rick you are beyond journey and into a Homeric Odyssey now wink
Again, your fortitude and current introspection are inspiring.

I do see this though. I do not have a W anymore, nor a lover, partner or even a friend
I disagree.

I'm going to handle my interactions differently with her too. I will still be friendly, supportive and loving
These last three words are the hallmark of a good friend.

Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.