Definitely sounds like your on the right plan. Even your C agrees!!
I found the best luck I had was when I let go and lived my life. I left it up to my XW to come back to me, and she did, twice. Live your life, enjoy your life, and see what happens. No expectations, just waiting. Putting your love life on hold while enjoying everything else. In some ways, that can be liberating in it's own way. Fewer pressures, fewer decisions.
