What do I do next? Part 3

[Grmpy_Mnky]

I know its tough, but you need to let her become mired in the consequences of her choices.

You have not detached yet either. The importance of detaching cannot be overstated. I was told eraly on that detaching was the "cornerstone" of the LBS's salvation. Once you come to realize this, you will be able to step back and appreciate or recognize what is going on around you. She tells you she does not want you to have false hope? Fine, detach. She may eventually find that the dish she ordered is unpalatable - "wait a second, I did not order this?"

I hope this makes sense. This is hard stuff man - I struggle everyday still just as many otehers around here.