Good to see that your H still knows how to be a dad I know you've been frustrated and hurt by his recent interactions with S4. It must have warmed your heart a little to see him showing his care and love for S4... AND he got up in the middle of the night?! Maybe he's coming around to realize his actions affect S4 more than he thought
My oldest broke his wrist at preschool when he was 3. I was lucky enough to be the director at the preschool so there was no delay in me finding out and getting him to the ER. He was more scared about getting an x-ray that he was about his wrist! Not sure if yours is this same way: but my S quickly learned that he could get whatever he wanted if he complained about his wrist... And he milked it for a while- even tried after it was healed!! These little boys love to be pampered... And us mommies love to do it!!
FWIW: I think it's a good thing that he responded like he did (as any dad should) after you had your blow up this past weekend.... Any ill effects don't seemed to have lingered long.
Have a good day with S4.... For mine, jello and a funny movie were the best medicine
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12