I asked her if she could see a possibility (however faint or distant) that we could rekindle the spark, find the connection again and she said no because it hasn't been there for a long time and she can't see how it can come back.
This is pressure and talking about the future. Validate her but don't get drawn into it.
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I just don't know if that is enough for me?? Frustrated...
You've only been at this a few weeks. You don't know what the future holds. It seems from your first post that she has lots of questions about her future. Let her explore that, her questions are hers to figure out.
You mentioned a couple of times that she was a quiet, inrovert. This post/discussion may be helpful to you.
