Yesterday was just like any other day, except I felt that it was okay to eat a lot of chocolate.
S4 got hurt right before I picked him up from daycare. He fell on his arm and was complaining about his elbow. We headed to urgent care to make sure it wasn't broken, and I called H to let him know. He was on his way home and said he'd meet us there.
Luckily, nothing is broken. S4 is in a sling and I'm hanging out at home with him today as he's complaining about moving it too much.
The experience with H at urgent care was so much different than 1 1/2 ago (a month post bomb) when we took S4 to the ER. Then, he was on his phone texting the whole time, had the shark eyes, kept his distance from us, and just did not want to be there.
Last night was so different: he was concerned, acted like a parent, didn't use his phone once!!!!! He left before us to go to his soccer game, but he wanted to make sure that S4 was okay first.
I didn't see H until I was in bed already. After S4 was in bed, I I lit some candles, took a nice hour long bubble bath while sipping some wine. Next time, I'll add music, but last night was good to just relax.
S4 woke up in the middle of the night complaining about his arm. One of the times H got up(!!!!) and hobbled over to his room (H got hurt again at soccer). H hasn't gotten up with S4 for at least 2 years!!