As a matter of fact I have had 2 years of counseling. Of course my counselor suggested I should have let this go a long time ago and find someone on my own intellectual and emotional level.
I was a stubborn young coot, now am a stubborn old coot that holds on very dearly to the teachings of my youth concerning family values, morals, and unconditional love.
Even the pure nature of this site encourages the participants to hold on and work things out except in cases of harmful violence.
My children have been disgusted with their Mother for a long time and now I have joined them and have given up the fight. I hate being a failure but I think in this case it actually will make me the winner ;-)
As the song says: "I just don't care anymore"
DavidA
You vote with your feet. Divorce final 12/24/2004 I Give Up !
