Nice job, try and leave the "I'll call you soon" out of it the next time though.
Now, you start doing your own thing, tackling some of those goals you were talking about, and start enjoying yourself, no worries. The main thing is you have to act happy and confident (men like that in a woman.. ) when you're in contact with him, and absolutely no pressure of any kind, no talking about C sessions, D talk, anything unless he brings it up, then you kick in with the validating.
Its important that you be consistent..and to really do that, you have to have accept that you're M may be over and convince yourself you're going to be A-OK no matter what happens. Remember, you didn't force him to the alter, you cannot force him to stay. You've shown him your sincerity, made some positive changes, he knows you want things to work out, all thats left to be done is to truly let him go and see how things develop from there.
) when you're in contact with him, and absolutely no pressure of any kind, no talking about C sessions, D talk, anything unless he brings it up, then you kick in with the validating. 
