Your W has had the gloves off for a long time. You have no choice but to bring your "A" game right now. Who cares what she thinks? You want your little man in your life. Your number #1 priority is your relationship with him.
As Mr. Bond said, see a L quickly.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa