Wiley,

Thanks for your advice. I'm going to take it to heart. I'm so tired of getting rebuffed by h so no more. It's surprising how little it hurts me to say that! Not that I don't want the m...it's just that I got to try to do something different. My h needs to make the moves now cause I'm not figuring out what to do for him. He's the only one that can get us out of the pit now.

Yeah, I'm beginning to think that if he hasn't gotten it after a year there's not much chance he'll get it a year from now. I'm going to stop waiting and make plans for my future.

Happy New Year to you also!

Cindy