I had the same problem w/ my H in terms of workplace frienship. Sad because of course they love you there! You present all of the fun stuff without all the dreary details such as.. Discipling kids etc. I also didn't like the fact that all his "friends" were single women. Nice huh? And they don't see that it's so easy to slip into an EA without even realizing. My H actually ended up having a PA with a woman at his last job. Looking back I think.. Nice. You put your best foot forward for the people you work with and have nothing for your family when you get home.. What do you expect to get back in return?
Ack! Sorry for the rant! I really feel your frustration!
How old are your kids?
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11