make sure you want to be married to THIS MAN, AS HE IS NOW, and not that you are simply
but understandably,
fearing the loss. Sometimes "losing" is a good thing. There may be more to gain in life by letting this man go.
I only ask you this b/c things have never been great with you (from your posts.)
It's one thing to Recreate what you once had, gettting back to the loving dynamics that rewarded and comforted both of you,
and taking a bad situation and trying to create single handedly, what maybe never has been...(all that stable or happy)???
So I ask this of several people here, not just you.
Do you want THIS marriage TO THIS man, as he is...
or are you just afraid of losing?
It's not an easy question. But it's a biggie.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
