Well said Wiley!

Seems to be the general concensus that we need to back off Cindy.

To take care of us-go out and have fun, and LET GO of trying to control our R can only have positive results.

If they don't come around, I don't think it's because we stoppped doing what we were doing. I've been at this for over two years and my H is procrastinating.

Time to try another tactic for both of us, ey? Rachael


Rachael