Sorry you've been under the weather...especially during the holiday! Need to get sick during work so you can go home!!! Ha, ha.
Quote: So, any thoughts on what to do if he does start chasing again?
I know I'll not be accepting all his invites....some but not all. Not return his calls right away. Definitely accept those 'dates' outside his apartment!
Quote: Think of it as giving him an opening.
I suppose I can let him know my long term plans. I usually leave voicemails rather than discuss over the phone...he tends to forget. I see what you are saying about leaving him an opening. I can still have fun even if he doesn't go.
Quote: What have y'all done over the last few weeks? I remember you went out for his Christmas party, anything else? Or do y'all usually just stay home?
His last invite to me was his Christmas Party on December 7. That was fun, hung out with his friends, went to the club, out to dinner. I loved it and told him so. Since then we've gone shopping, to dinner once, to lunch with the kids once. Since the holidays we've been together 8 days including nights which the majority of the time we've spent inside his place. Now that school will resume Monday our interactions will be very limited to maybe an occasional Saturday night if he thinks to ask me out.
He told me New Year's Eve he'd call me later...how much later? He's just so inconsiderate...if I was to do something like that to him...he'd say well I guess you don't want to work on the m!