Honestly, I've been wiped out. Took vacation between Christmas and New Year's. Got laryngitis Sunday, and I've fighting to recover ever since. Had all sorts of shopping planned, got none of it done. Wanted to start reorganizing the house, got little of that done. Basically just been a lazy bum for the last week, but for a reason.
I understand where you are with your H. I got that way several times with my XW, and she usually started chasing again at that time. So, any thoughts on what to do if he does start chasing again?
As for inviting your H, it's more of a courtesy invite than anything. Think of it as giving him an opening. You hope he'll take it and improve your relationship, but you don't believe he will. He learns what you want to do, you find out if he'll do them also. Either way, have fun doing it.
I agree it needs to be more than just going to bed with your H. What have y'all done over the last few weeks? I remember you went out for his Christmas party, anything else? Or do y'all usually just stay home?
We'll definitely have to get together again. I'm thinking about learning pool seriously - so far it's been an occasional thing, but I need something new to do. Plus, there's much in this city I haven't explored yet.
