Is there still hope?

[HHIF]

Well now my wife is planning on scheduling mediation a so we can move forward with divorce.

I do not want a divorce but she seems dead set on it at this point,she wants us to sit down and talk about the house and kids and how to divide everything.

I can't believe this is the same woman that I have been with for 32 years,I just do not understand how she can be so cold and matter of fact about ending our marriage,it [censored].

I am trying to decide if I should move out or not if she goes through with this,she has said that for the kids and finances that we could just continue to live under the same roof until our youngest goes off to college,we have lived as roommates in separate beds for the past few years,but now that she is pushing divorce I'm feeling like maybe I should leave but I still want to do what's best for my son.