Introduction -- Can a Couple Survive Infidelity? Stage One: Reacting to the Affair "Is What I'm Feeling Normal" 1) The Hurt Partner's Response: Buried in an Avalanche of Loss 2) The Unfaithful Partner's Response: Lost in a Labyrinth of Choices
Stage Two: Reviewing Your Options: "Should I Stay or Leave?" 3) Exploring Your Ideas About Love 4) Confronting Your Doubts and Fears
Stage Three: Recovering from the Affair: "How Do We Rebuild Our Life Together?" 5) Learning About the Affair 6) Restoring Trust 7) How to Talk About What Happened 8) Sex Again 9) Learning to Forgive
Epilogue -- Revealing the Secret: Truth and Consequences
I did find it helpful. The Recovery chapter more or less assumes a remorseful spouse who is willing to work on the marriage with you. My W wanted to skip the "work" part, so that may happen.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015