Enjoy the rest of your trip Purg. And thanks for the FB warning. I'll stay off today (and maybe tomorrow).
GM - Wow, yeah, that's a lousy feeling. W still shows us married but if you look through her pictures/statuses over the past 18 months its pretty obvious that I am not part of her social life. It suxxs but it doesn't define who I am (personal mantra).
Purg, I hope you can focus on the fun/joy of being with your boys again when you get home. The reality will be a shock but something tells me you're in a better place to deal with it than you think!
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
I wish we could post photos sometimes. Like if we had one thread where we all could (of course - if we WANT to) post a picture of us.. solo when we are at our happiest. It would serve as a good reminder of the ability to be a happy camper single
Ces67: Thats kinda good W doesn't change her status, no? I had to admit, that would instill some hope in me for sure.
Hey Purg don't want to be Debbie Downer here but I've taken a couple of little trips since the S and there's been a period of "re-entry" that included a lot of sadness.
When we're away when can put it out of mind a bit but returning brings the whole situation into focus again.
Be prepared.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Thanks for the FB warning!! I do not want to see anyone elses happiness with their goodies today, other than the kids of course!!
Enjoy the rest of your vaca!
Btw, my H took his status off (no status posted), took pics of US off, and removed me as W on his FAMILY spot. This was 1-2 days after bomb. It doesn't matter though cause, it's not over til I say it is!!
Me31 H33 M11 T15 S10, D4 H deploys 01/11 H R&R two weeks 10/11 ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11 homecoming 1/12 pos D 1/13
Not gonna lie- kinda sad today. Even though H and I meet did extravagant things on V-Day, we always acknowledged it. Not having that handwritten note, or flower for me, is another reminder of our current sitch.
But I did have a silver lining thought: H WILL think of me today. Whether he thinks about me because he's anticipating something from me (which there is nothing) or he might think of me in remberance of past V-Days, (and the worst) would be if he thinks about how much we didn't celebrate V-Day as he celebrates with OW today.....
In any case, he will have to think of ME today.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
Happy V-day, Purg! You're such a strong person and deserve the best!
I never really liked V-day before...H wasn't overly romantic. But now knowing what you can't have makes it so much harder. Hope you're finding little ways to enjoy your day! I'm planning on taking a bath later tonight.
