It's out of print -- if you hunt around off of Amazon you can find it for less. I think I paid less than $20. There is a related book called "The Passion Trap" I just started reading which is supposed to be along the same lines and has a Kindle version.
The "Pursuit and Distance Dance" is an interesting concept, that's definitely been going on in my sitch. I confirmed in MC last night that W wants more distance in our M than I do -- more than twice as much! So that explains a lot -- time for me to retreat.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015