It's out of print -- if you hunt around off of Amazon you can find it for less. I think I paid less than $20. There is a related book called "The Passion Trap" I just started reading which is supposed to be along the same lines and has a Kindle version.

The "Pursuit and Distance Dance" is an interesting concept, that's definitely been going on in my sitch. I confirmed in MC last night that W wants more distance in our M than I do -- more than twice as much! So that explains a lot -- time for me to retreat.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015