Your getting some great advise here...I agree completely that your impatience is beginning to show. This is a very long process and isn't going to happen over night.
In addition to rereading DR...you might also want to pick up one of the many books one rebuilding your relationship with your Xspouse. Might give you some ideas that you can apply within your DBing techniques.
As for your husband's diffeculty in the bedroom. Not being a man...I can't say...but I understand from the guys around here..that it goes one or two ways during the seperation period. Either they walk around aroused all the time...or their emotions get in the way and it's an issue.
Talk to some of the guys...but you may find that it's normal...he's got a lot of things on his mind...a lot of stress...a lot of uncertainty.
State Flower
"It's not what happens to you, it's what you make of it." Zig Ziglar
