Kg, I know you dont want to and your afraid it is going to make things between you and your H confrontational...I felt the same way. But eventually you have to start thinking of yourself and your kids, he is not. It was one of the hardest things ive done when I signed those papers and started the process..my H wanted to handle it all threw a paralegal and settle it "amicably"...he also wanted to split everything...he makes 80 grand a year more then me and I took care of my kids (one special needs) alone. He also started the cute little text and being really friendly..and I found out it was to get me to agree to a certain amount for support, when he found out I wouldnt it all stopped and he got ugly...started threatening 50/50...(this from a man that rarely sees his son, has never been involved as more then a part time dad and works 14 hr days.. and usually weekends) so he could pay less child support..and then threatened to quit his job and move out of state.... The man who said he would make it as easy on myself and my son as possible and who said he didnt want to be enemies has now got a L and is fighting me on a D that he wanted, not me. Even after I made an offer to him that was less then what the state required, he refused to sign and we now have to go to court. Please talk to a L..financial stuff brings out the worst in people and you will not win with him. You are always going to be the woman who is screwing up his game plan of having a "happy life"...and your just out to get him.
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...
