Wow, 111, what a memory. It's so hard to go to those good, cherished memories for me. I just become so sad. So, I try to only think of the present and the future for now. Your trip sounds amazing and I hope you have the chance to do something just as special very soon.
Mimi
being in the present is key to success here, and imo, in life in general.
Looking to the future with optimism and hope is great too. Let go of the past, unless/until the good memories bring you comfort.
Someday they probably will.
I totally agree and am trying to do just that. I do think the good memories will someday bring me comfort. I am hopeful that we will work this out, but if not, I am determined to end it with integrity, honesty, and friendship. I think it will be easier to move on that way and preserve the good stuff.
Anyway, I am loving this thread. Thanks.
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12
