So glad to see the perfect type of man that sweeps you off your feet is just a sharade. You know he started acting different 4 days after we got married.
I am not sure how your H acted differently, but shortly after I got married, after spending so much time enjoying life together, I began to feel a growing distance between us, like she took a big step back, a loss of connection, almost a loneliness creep in. Hard to define: possibly a feeling of being taken for granted?