I am keeping the kids overnight tonight to avoid having to sit at Ws place for 2 hours after kids are in bed. I will drop them off at her apartment on my way to work in the morning. She does not agree to this because she thinks I am keeping them to try and lower my child support.....the thought never entered my mind but she has trust issues. She will have to adjust. But I must admit keeping kids and freeing her up on Valentine's day doesn't feel good:-(