Hey KG - I'm sorry you are in such a low spot today. Sad as it is, you really should consult with a L and see if maybe a legal separation is something worth pursuing.
I agree that your H seemed to be playing you with all the texts and so forth. On the other hand maybe he is having his doubts and just doesn't realize it. I mean he can't even make up his mind about how to separate finances.
He sounds so much like my W. One minute things are fine and the next she is panicked about money. It's not like the financial picture changed overnight or anything. I think they are just looking for an escape hatch but it is like they are fumbling in the dark and don't know where to turn or what to do.
Hang in there. Today will soon be yesterday and life will go on.
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
