Actually the OG isn't a skinhead, she was before we met when she was younger. I guess she must have told him about this and he's played up to it. I haven't let on I know yet, I've still been DRing, even bought flowers and took her out for Valentines day - not going to give her any excuses that I'm being bad to her.
I don't want to rub it in her face at the counseling, I'll still be sensitive, I've told the counselor already a bit about it on the phone, I don't want her getting hostile, the kids are still in the house with us.