I've had those moments where I realized I didn't handle the sitch as best I could- I always send a follow up text to my H... but that's part of my 180's: acknowledging when I did something wrong and apologizing quickly (my pride used to keep me from doing that, and I would just ignore things until it blew over.)

So for me, it's worked to my advantage to apologize. H has actually acknowledged that he notices. Just look at your history with W, if this is a 180 for you- I saw it's not a bad thing to send it.

You and your kids are in my prayers (((mrmr)))

M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12