Been there sone that. Need more info from you. What are her complaints? Ages? How long have you been together? The more info you give the more help you will receive.
This is generally not a quick process, it took time to get here and it will take time to get out, so patience is key. Hopefully someone who is not on a phone can post the 37note rules here for you. Print them. Read them. Learn them. Live them.
