Ok, so I am still trying to figure out our tax documents and these stupid required papers for the "discovery" stage of the D. I honestly need H help with this stuff. I sent him a message asking him to call me some time before Saturday since I need to have everything post-marked by Saturday. I explained in the message that I don't believe this stuff can be worked out by email. I plan to make sure IF he does call me that I maintain my upbeat, pleasant, happy sounding self. I plan to stay on task and not discuss the M or possibilities of R. However, I guess at this point, if he DOESN'T call me, then I will figure it out to the best of my abilities and sign it and send it as is. In the meantime, I'm still taking the conversation last Friday as a good "baby-step". I still feel (wrong or right though it may be) that if he truly wanted this to end in D, that we wouldn't have had to get assigned a "Settlement Conference" by the courts. We would have gotten through this much quicker on our own (and possibly more hostile too)...