Separation, Settlement, or Servellience?

[Yasu]

Forgive my defensiveness please. I am here for the same reasons as most anyone else. I am desparately seeking assistance in interpreting the behaviors of my husband, and understanding how I might better apply the DB/DR principles in my situation. I am just at the point of giving up, and looked to this site for hope and direction.

I do not feel well at all, - nobody would on as many drugs as are prescribed for this bi-polar condition, they are paralyzing. My drug bill could easily feed a family of four. I am really trying to keep a grip, as I watch my finances, and last amounts of personal credit is about wiped out.

I am afraid. I am ill at ease with this illness. I liked it better when I had the security of my marriage. I know better how to handle matters after 3.5 years of reflection, and a complete change for the better in many respects. Anyway, that's what I have to add, and again, so sorry for my snappiness. There was something painful about reading your post. Y