I guess I feel really stupid right now. That is so the million dollar question I have heard for 32 years. I suppose, when these painful stories are written down, it never looks so great. I would not call my husband a total loser.
He is mean, there is no doubt about that. He has never been a deadbeat - and has worked very hard everyday that I have known him. Due to my education, I did out earned him when I was working. But, in terms of breadwinner, I am now the big loser.
I suppose I cannot feel more like an idiot than I do just now. That is why I never put this story down in one place before. As I said, I am afraid.
Married 27 Years Together 32 Years 4th Year of Separation; D-Day 1 = 9/08, D-Day 2 = 12/08 Divorce Final Sept. 17, 2012