Your situation is very convoluted. I apologize if you've answered this before but why do you want to stay married to him? Accuray asked this because in my opening post i had made my H seem to be a loser and people thought "Wow, sounds like she's better off without him!"
I also went to Accuray's thread and asked him to visit mine.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
