i have had all of these same thoughts too. it's scary to think about the idea of a new relationship. because it makes me think that once that happens, then that tie to my H will be truly over and it really makes me sad.
wow! so great that your wife read something describing her situation and that she was open minded and let it sink in. it would have been easier to just say.. whatever. i think that's a huge step and hopefully will make her more aware.
hang in there. you're doing great!
Thanks B...F
Aaah the questions we ask ourselves in this...it never stops