@BeingMe: OW's STBX hasn't deployed yet. She still maintains he is getting kicked out, he told me he is deploying with his unit. Guess when his unit deploys and he does or doesn't we will know the truth. My H said why would she lie about that? I said so you will think she is destitute, or going to be. Hello!
To lose his cell phone he would have to not be touching it. When he is in the "Stay" mode he leaves it plugged in on the end table and goes to the bathroom and leaves it alone with me. When he is in "Go" mode it is always on his person.
@KML: I think we tend to recreate our old worlds, maybe not on purpose. I think i was drawn to my H because he is quiet, like my dad was. But my dad was much more of a romantic, playful, joker.
My H used to be playful and joke around. But for romance I realized it was almost always me doing all the work. I used to wear fancy underwear, would put a lot of effort into the visual, candles, etc.
I think you should just find a guy who celebrates love. Then you won't care what day it is!
Okay, I am in the sewing room doing some work, don't tell anyone!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
