That is the reason why I did not give him an ultimatum because I knew he would think that I was still the same person.

He knows how I feel about it and hopefully he will respect that. But I am not going to waste my energy and time into it. I will put my energy and time into our marriage. And hopefully over time and he will drop her as a friend on his own. I can only pray.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)